If we can avoid words like stuck and worry wort etc then there's a chance of continuing the discussion and everyone learning something :thumbup:
This topic comes up every so often and can get some passionate opinions
I looked at the Ram (Promaster) and Ford (Transit) manuals a couple of years ago and posted this:
http://www.classbforum.com/forums/f5/roadtrek-idling-and-engine-generation-3248-5.html#post23703
Note that Ram suggests to avoid prolonged idling in the Promaster Diesel Supplement.
Re: the question about idle RPM's under load - it would be interesting if owners shared some info. A lot of owners don't seem to be the technically inclined type though.
The RPM's at idle don't change much under load with my van. They never get near 1000 rpm for example if left up to the computer. I generally flick the switch on my dash to 1,070 rpm when running loads like the microwave oven because I think it is a good thing to do.