I think a lot of the answer is unknown right now as we don't know for sure if the 170 he has is on a 2500 or 3500 van as far as I know there were some of each but I think mostly 3500. The 2500 has lower gross weight so I assume the axle weights change also. That would make the springs, shocks, and front swaybar change also. If it is a 3500, I would go with the softer Sumo, I think. Can't say on the 2500 as we would need to know where the van axle weights are at in camping trim and how high it is sitting.
A 1" spacer will give about 2.5" lift, I think, so how far off the frame before lift would be good to know. It may sit as low as a 3500 that is near max front axle, or not. Measuring the wheelwell height can give a good indication, though, of where he is now. The problem with spring lifts is that you stay with the same spring rate spring that is probably too soft (the 3500 are) but you increase the wheel travel before it hits the bump stop. You get more motion that way that needs to be damped so good shock essential but will probably need to stiffen the ride a bit to prevent porpoising.
Shock extended length gets pretty important when you lift the front, especially with spacer lifts. The shock is the only stop that prevents the upper control arm from hitting the frame on wheel drops in bumps or when jacked up.